My life seems to cycle in and out of being able to bring that 12 house/Neptune energy into the everyday world. Everything you said is so on point. Hi Dawn, are you able to give me anymore insight or know where I might find more information about 12th house stellium in cancer planets are sun,moon,Mercury and Venus in my husband and my composite chart. I will always be exactly where I am now loving you. There is a certain someone whose natal Sun is in the 12 th, his sun also receiving a natal square from his Neptune. You are great!!!!!!!!!!! In a negative way, the struggles within the partnership will cause the Pluto person to see where his or her behaviour needs adjusting. So sad! Unfortunately, the 12th House is one of the hardest places for Lilith to be. Struggling against our own unconscious is not an easy thing What if the composite chart has two strong stelliums: one is made up of the outer planets in the 12th, the other Sun/Mercy/Venus/Juno in the 10th (and moon and mars are in the 8th). Hi Daw He told me that had never happened to him before (referring to how we couldnt control ourselves). Since then we got closer and closer and couldnt hold back our attraction. We also have composite Juno in Aquarius in the 4th house (opposing Mercury in the 10th and trining the Ascendant), and Venus tightly conjunct Saturn in the 11th (Leo). Sun conjunct Neptune is a very difficult thing to live with in a composite chart. Dear Dawn, I just see now, that accidentally I typed wrong Your name! I am a strong 12th house person- the sun in Libra conjunct Pluto/Mercury in Scorpio, with Saturn in Scorpio widely conjunct my Scorpio ascendent (I told you I was intense) and he has no planets in the 12th. The lesson they teach is that we do not have to possess love in order to experience it. Our date was perfect but too creepy cause he told his very deep secrets and early regrets to me. This is my take on signs that have two rulersthere is a higher expression and a lower expression of the signs energy. Those of us with composite 12th emphasized will be asked to step away from the mundane and step into the world of the extraordinary, where unlikely connections are day to day things. and then mars, Jupiter and neptune in the 2nd. If the Composite Sun is in the 1 st House, there will be a focus on this relationship. A very painful and challenging connection. Saturn is the heaviest aspected planet in this composite, which actually reinforces the intensity of the Moon/Saturn-opposite theme from synastry. . The Uranus/Mercury conjunction in the composite can make the relationship more mental than physical. What to make of this? Oh, and we have a 7 year old son. Greetings. Unable to forget it? "Composite Chart, Midpoint- method (2)". Our composite sun is in the 7 house. This is brilliant and compassionate. With composite Pluto in their 9th house, danger lies in dogmatism. Sadly, our Moon is square to Uranus and I suspect this might be one influence behind her decision to break off all contact with me. Then you have to put the natal charts around the composite, and there are a number of other techiques depending on what questions are asked: coalescent charts, draconic charts, etc. Thank You for Your answer and best regards from Hungary! Its what happens when a sensitive person loves another human being. Transit Mercury in the Composite 12th House. Looking at the chart, it seems to be propelling us into Aquarius, and Aquarian age type of love. Is this similar for composite ruler in 12th? We romanticize all of this (and well, a little romance never hurt anyone) but the truth is that this familiarity is there to hurry up the bonding process so that the lessons and the challenges can be quickly assimilated. The Davison chart is a time/space chart and is anchored in the here and now. The 12th house is all about past life astrology, so the planets can . But someone who tells you they love you every day and tries to break up with you every month is clearly not. Its also trine to the moon and sextiling Uranus. I know this man will be in my life as long as I can imagine. Fated, for sure, but lessons to learn, or something that we must finish? The composite chart has Sun/Jupiter conjunct by degree in the 12th in Scorpio, moon in the 12th in late Libra, and Scorpio rising. . The relationship has been on & off, again and again for 28 years. you are right on target- although I forgot to mention that our trine is in 4th,8th and 12th you are an amazing teacher and your articales on your site have helped me tremendously. The empty space you decribe has me under pressure most days. Thank you in advance. Most of my relationships are like that . . We both feel we have been together over many lifetimes. Twelfth house composites can work very well if the people involved understand that they must work together and make a contribution of some kind, even to simply show a good example of what a couple can be. I am at a point where Im in limbo and ready to let go if necessary, but I am paralyzed by the confusion and inability to understand whats at the root of what led us to this point. Because of the sensitivity of house cusps, I recommend using the Koch house system . Hi WhitelotusI use both the Midpoint and the Davison charts in synastry. mars is trine composite sun, pluto, uranus jupiter and neptune- but square moon saturn. The diurnal chart's house cusps will also conjunct progressed and directed planets throughout the year and can mark significant days. Thanks a lot Dawn, now I understand it. Either the energy of the planet is lost, confused, diffused and (at least in our early years) ineffective, or the planet can completely embody its archetype for all to see, often after overcoming great difficulties and reversals, sometimes in extreme circumstances. I am so sad because I would have never meet him IF my husband and this man, and his wife would not become friends with him in church, ( I did not go to church for a while so I would not meet them!) I know that there is a purpose regarding this relationship, but i cant find it Sorry, Natalia, I cant really comment on this in the space available. My 12 is in Leo, along with my Sun, Mercury, Mars and Pluto. I am in a very confused place myself right now, wanting to forgive, still loving her, but not understanding her and whether healing her childhood wounds will bring her attraction back, or if its got something more to do with me and something I need to let go of. Our synastry with my beloved couple is very strong with good connections between both 1th and 7th house rulers and many positive aspects like double whammy saturn-moon, and positive ascendant-moon, ascendant-venus, venus-moon, and so warm and intense pluto conj. Haunting what can we do here? Wow very insightful thank you so much, I love your writing!! People who fight for justice for others often have Juno prominent in the chart. How that manifests depends on other aspects. I am not certain this person is a fit but yet there are alot of coincidences between us that keeps me boggled on the larger picture. The higher powers are always tapping at the door, insisting on change, cleansing, and renewal from within (Pluto/Uranus in Virgo), but how do you do that if your connection to the other world and the higher powers are full of fear and resistant to the necessary dissolving that must occur (Saturn in Pisces). thanks you very much Dawn to shed some lights on this! By the way loved your above article and thank you for any info you provide : ) x, Thanks for writing this article. The empty space in Aries, would that be the outlet or where to focus all that energy? Lilith in 12th House: 5 Key Takeaways. We have (taurus) mars-venus conjunction on the 12th house and it is so real in our life: we need so strong the deep intimacy and the so close physical and spiritual nearness together, and it is better for us to be alone together for our happiness. Its a damn shame, but I cant make him more a more spiritual person, just because our powerful connection together is deep and spiritual. It depends on your Venus ' condition. With 4, 8 and 12 emphasized, youll have to deal with one another in an emotionally honest way, no matter what karma you have to work out together. Now, what to think of this powerful symbolism in the composite chart? What would you say about a composite Scorpio Juno in the 12th house, conjunct to the asteroid Valentine and squaring the north and south node? I say empty.. no planet but Asteroid Osiris is 26 Aries. great post- thank you! What should i do? Just endings in general. They have an inner urge to help others but don't know how to help themselves or ask for support. I like to think of Pluto more in terms of the battle between the ego and the soul. I am reasonably happy in my 3+ year marriage, and yet, I still miss my former boyfriend desperately sometimes. Thank you very much for the answer. Well, his descendant point, and his ascendant ruler both conjunct my natal Lilith in my12 th house, orb2. I really appreciate your take on the 12th house; it definitely resonates as true, from my experience. When transit Venus is in the composite 12th house, you may enjoy being affectionate with one another when no one else around is around to pry and its just the two of you in a personal relationship. Composite Houses, I'll begin, of course, with the Ascendant and the first quadrant of the chart. me and this guy who dont know each other properly have same ascendants and house cusps natally. We become real magicians if we can tap into it. I am NOT usually like this. Im not quick to say its an illusion, but its not quite real either, and you can get into some dangerous territory in the 12th by telling yourself things that arent really true. I do use the Black Moon Lilith in my composites, but what she represents there is a whole article of its own. We share the same dreams, communicate telepathically, had a fated magnetic meeting; we are truly best friends. Transit Mercury in the 12th House Meaning, Transit Birth Chart, Mercury Astrology Free Interpretations . Chiron. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Also, forgive my double Virgo and the fact that I was once an editor: the phrase is unrequited love not unrequired. Sorry. Thank You for Your answer and best regards from Hungary! venus+mars, etc. That I could be around someone and not feel uncomfortable. Transit Pluto in the Composite 12th House. Thank you for your answer. This person and I believe were soulmates, and I would go further to say were twin flames as we share some many parallels in our lives, similarities, and all the other strange features of a twin flame relationship as describe by many. It will revolve around sorrow, secrets, fantasies, hidden desires, emotions, and everything that belongs to our little secrets without physical forms. If you have Lilith in the 12 th house of your chart, her themes will manifest in terms of isolation, the shadow, and limitation. And I read from Stephen Arroyo that it is so important to see the traditional rulers of the signs , for example in Aquarius is more important to see Saturn than Uranus. And I read from Stephen Arroyo that it is so important to see the traditional rulers of the signs , for example in Aquarius is more important to see Saturn than Uranus. Transit Venus in the Composite 12th House. I like my husband as well after 20 years of marriage but I feel like I fell in this tragic love triangle story without asking for it! Wow, everything in this article is so accurate + written so beautifully. WhiteLotus. Usually, life will present us with huge dilemmas that cause us to choose between the ego and the soul path. He literally proposed to me the night we met. Neptune is in the 4th, Libra. this is honestly so beautiful to read. Please advise if we can make it to marriage or our relationship is doomed. I cannot be happy with him (I feel happy but it doesnt last any longer) or without him. !.the telepathy is overwhelming me. RUN ? He didnt want to commit/marry. From what you said, it seems like perhaps these give the relationship an element of commitment, partnership, and longevity that it wouldnt otherwise have albiet in an unusual, community-oriented way. Do you think that is true? (One expression does not contra-indicate the other.). Black Moon Lilith in 12th house suggests an interest in the occult and esoteric teachings. I think that your article is quite amazing, but for those of us who are making these relationships work for us I wish you would have given some cases in which it can work. Jupiter in 1st house, Uranus in the 11th to bracket the party. so we find the True in each other. I dont know if he felt the same deep feelings but I know he was puzzled by the sex. sorry Ive made an error : it is not his descendant point, it is his IC point. Like individuals with 12th house planets, couples with a lot of twelfth house may feel that there is something fated about their lives together. And we both natally have same aspects, my mars is in my 12th and his moon is in his 12th also. should i run away from this relationship? VERY-VERY SORRY! The Autumn Schedule is Here! Although Im aware this is only an illusion of my mind and nothing else , this illusion is so strong and so frequent that I ve at least learned to live with it and Ive given up struggling against it. Together we share a Mars 12th. Im so confused by this mix! The fourth house is . 4) Conjunctions to the Axis/Angles = very strong bond. Im sure your midpoint chart is valid if you had it read properly. It doesnt matter. We challenge each other to be the best versions of ourselves. This secrecy he is practising probably points to the venus-mars in composite twelfth ? Some relationships have terrible natal comparisons and good composites. As Jeff Buckley puts it, hes a tear that hangs inside my soul forever. But, separate he has a Saturn Gemini 12th and I have a Mercury Scorpio 12th. I have a heavily involved 12th house with someone, in synastry, sun and sun/moon in each other natal and composite.shows Sun/Mar/Saturn. a strong karmic tie is indicated in the 12th house, or in the other water houses 4,8. Whatever the motive, we know we are facing some sort of extremeand a choice. We all have things we come in to this life to accomplish, achieve, or learn. Venus/Uranus is difficult in the composite, but it doesnt explain your obsession. Your post was seemed most fitting for a romantic liaison. Please enlighten me.. Usually, when the 12th house is heavily involved, whether it be a natal chart, a comparison, or a composite, the message is to let go. The fellow and I have composite sun/Mercury conjunct in the 12th, making an out of sign conjunction to the ascendant. Thank You very much for Your answer and very best regards from Hungary again! (Because the moon's orbit is elliptical, it has two center . Thats for start. One or two aspects, especially in composite, do not carry the story. Transit Neptune in the Composite 12th House. When there are clusters of planets there are no simple solutions. Thanks Dawn! This placement suppresses your deep subconscious a lot. The house is famous for being the house of self-undoing, but it can also be the house where we find our fame and fortune. Are these water houses the culprits that keep pulling me back? Im always attracted to those types of relationships The composite with the Great Unrequired Impossible love of my life , shows Sun conjunct Neptune and SN , in Scorpio VII . The midpoint composite points out the places where the planets in the two charts manifest. (Note that Jupiter is the natural co-ruler of the 12th, so it will behave in a Pisces-like manner, here.) Mine is conjunct with his moon. Could be a seperation. If I did not believe in Karma or Fate now I do not have ANY DOUBT that really something runs our life from out there for good or bad This is the empty space, the place where we are not like others, the place where the pieces dont fit. It usually indicates that there is something karmic surrounding that planet that needs fixingit is, in a prior life, something that was missed or misused between them. And yes, you need to put the natal charts around the composite to see how this is going to affect the individuals. His natal Venus in cancer is in my 12house. Comparing composites to the biwheel between two charts is impossible, like comparing apples and oranges. Our lives are silly and sublime at once. thank you for your insight, thank you !!! Something is whispering in their ears. Its the last chance to get it right, and there will be a struggle to use this planets positive expression easily. But thank you for helping me face reality. We get along very well but our relationship is being kept in secret (which sucks) and the Saturn and Pluto opposite Asc. Venus is the planet of love which makes him lovable by his likable behavior and persuasive way of talking. There are lots of couples with heavy 12th house influence who are out in the open. They represent different aspects of a relationship. If the fears arent dealt with (and the fears include loss of all kinds), it can get projected and the world itself can become the enemy. Another concern is his Saturn and North node in my MC/IC and my Mercury/Mar (ruler of my 7th) in his Asc. I live in a kind of constant daydream /illusion of being near my beloved ghost I know this is not truth , but I dont know how I could do without. Hi ameNow were talking about the differences between the Davison and the midpoint charts, and thats really too complicated a topic to go into here. So I had to find an answer without destroying so many other lives or breaking up relationships. This is where our own shadow meets the shadow of the collective. So, the composite Venus and Saturn are also in the 12th house. You might have a relationship that was so intense, which left you hurting. Concentrate on intimacy and you should be all right. If anything new would happen you would dbe the first one to know! In my experience, if you have a good synastry but a difficult composite, the couple get along with one another but have problems establishing the relationship in the outside world. It might hold your answers, if you know how to read it properly. Lilith may help 12th house to bring their subconscious patterns to light, or do the opposite and evoke more fear. The 12th house is always complex and is different in how it manifests depending on the contacts involved. P.S. In synastry, his Pluto is in my 12th conjunct my ascendent tightly, and I have nothing in his 12th. As a 12th house person, I finally realized I enjoy the confusion. However, humans are imperfect, and complete faith is hard to keep up all of the time. What do You think about Davison Chart? Sorry, I cant respond to lists of aspects. The romantic nature of the past relationship is more emphasized which planets such as Venus, Mars, or Lilith in the twelfth house. We feel that very beautiful in our life! I need help! It is commonly thought that the Moon governs emotions and intuition, and it does. The feelings I have are much deeper than lust and infatuation. Now I just have to sit and wait around where it is got to leave us! Good luck. We tried to stop but we couldnt be in the same room aloneI know it sounds nothing more than two horny people getting together but it really wasnt the same..or was it? When we left to go home I literally felt a piece of me inside left. in the 12th house, you might be safe in assuming that there was a marriage or long-term relationship in a past life. Its impossible to do one without composites or progressed composites. i dont know, looking at this chart, it has completely different emphasis, from my regular composite. Chiron in 12th House Meaning, Chiron in Twelfth House Meaning. I have met my match. This places can even indicate psychic ability. It was helpful all of your comments about the rest of composite houses and I say Thank you again for this The story of your inability to connect probably has more to do with your individual chart comparisons than the composite chart. Its part of me. any input would be greatly appreciated!!! A share a composite chart with a stellium of planets (Sun, Mercury, Uranus, and Neptune) in the 12th house with cusp on Scorpio. The relationship is a very private one, we share many trips together, and special 12th house retreat time together. We also have Sun conjunct Saturn, Saturn trine Moon double whammy, Sun conjunct North Node double whammy, his venus conjunct my ascendant, My Mercury conjunct his ascendant, our moons conjunct in aries, Sun opposite Sun, Mercury opposite Mercury, and Venus opposite Venus, all within 3 degrees. This position can show one person makes all of the sacrifices and the other person takes everything . Any advice would be helpful. So much uncertainty and confusion!! Looking forward to taking more classes with you in the future. I hope you are well during these strange and powerful times. It can be in a subconscious way, and you subconsciously want to have all of the power and control. Most of it is illusions I know.. They rip the rug from under you every other day. He is my best friend but marriage to him has been so disappointing because theres not much difference between now and when I was single. Dear Dawn, Does that sound like enough glue to counter the 12th house effects? My boyfriend and I have 4-5 planets in the 12th house in our composite progressed chart. We communicated telepathically and still do. *Also in synastry- my 12th house Juno in Taurus also sits in his 12th house) In astrology, the Twelfth House governs the unconscious, addiction, jails, higher self, and psychic abilities. They might be very sneaky and test people a lot. Natal Sun in Gemini and Venus in Cancer in the 12th, and Venus is conjunct my Cancer ASC. We grasp for the handrail, and find nothing to hold on to. If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. Sun/Uranus conjunct in the 1st. The ego thing is very true. How does the 12th manifest when the planet is also conjunct the Asc? You mentioned that couples with 12th house emphasis usually come together for a specific purpose and once that is completed the relationship is destined to end (thats what I gathered anyway). Aspects to composite planets will fill in the details. 1. To use Jeff Greens analogy, the ego believes it is an independent entity, but a developed ego is like a wave; it knows it is moving towards the shore, but it also knows that it will return to the ocean to which it belongs, the place of the Source or universal spirit. My sympathies. Thank you, Tricia. Lilith in the 12th House. We are happy when were together but he took a job 2 hours away and moved into our country house which I have now come to hate. We have a meaningful journey to take together, but we must ultimately be alone. My daughter and I have a 12th house Sun-Moon conjunction (in Cancer) in our composite. Indeed, I felt the fear trampling along the edge with fear of insecurity. Im from a country in southamerica. The composite charts (both Davison and midpoint) need to be progressed. IP: Logged. Composite, Davison Chart . Our composite has a sun and north node in the 12 th house. Obviously, I thought this man was my soulmate. Is it possible that 2 people with so much 12th/water house activity; both within synastry and composite, there is any hope for them to just be normal and happy together without karma or something else getting in the way? Interesting description: it seems like weve followed ourselves around the country for each of our lives and not ever taking the time to learn about each other. The 12th House is also known as the House of mystery while Venus symbolizes intuition and artful . Yes There is a higher purpose to these relationships. Thanks. Im in hawaii for a month, after he broke up with me for the last time, trying to get my strength and sanity back and assure myself that you should not have to TRY so hard for things to work, when these 12th issues come up to work on. I cant make a decision of whether to stay or leave without more clarity it feels like we arent done learning what we need to learn together, but staying together in this state where she doesnt desire me is agony. Now, you can either say its karma, or you can say that person A is psychologically hooking onto the archetype formed with person Bs chart, but whatever it is, it can be a very powerful pull. Astrology Symbols, Elements, Modalities, & House Types. In the composite chart, the composite 12th house can show what may be hidden in the relationship, what may play out subconsciously in the relationship, the karma of the relationship, and what needs to be let go of. Once they have hammered out their imbalance (too little, too much is often a theme with the 12th) they must find a way to make something real of their inspiration. I would like to help you, but you would need a full analysis of the charts to know what is going on with this 12th house energy. what do you think it means to have such much weight in the 1st and 12th houses? and Ceres in Pisces in his 12th and all conjunct his lilith. I have to come to grips with it (what you said) altough it is not an easy thing for me when it comes to love (being an Aries lol I want to love with a passion and not just except it as an idea). But exploring worlds during sex, soul bonding, feeling understood at a deep level, feeling at home in the spirit of the world, higher purpose together, channeling together, these are all things ive felt with my boyfriend and our 12th house energies. Of course, this can lead to overspending and a tendency to overvalue anything that is overindulgent and impractical, but the positive energy Jupiter brings will generally get you through it. Such a great article! Could I ask Your opinion? Beginning to look at our Composite Chart and come to find a Moon and Mars Conjunction in Leo 12th House. When transit Saturn is in the composite 12th house, you may feel that old issues or subconscious issues in the relationship become more of a problem, and need to be worked on, understood, and moved on from.